Had a quite..in depth coversation with Tze. Talking about how girls might change themselves for a guy and how a girl starts to like a guy...

Some girls see a guy, becomes attracted to him, he likes her back, they get together, and thats a perfect story. But how often does something like that happen? Not often at all, really rare actually.
Some girls see a guy, becomes attracted to him, he likes her back, but then the girl realises she doesn't actually like the guy, and took it all too far. Then the relationship gets confusing..and they stop talking.
Some girls see a guy, becomes attracted to him, but are wary of it..they wait to see if they really like him or not, and when it's been long enough, they realise that they really do like him, but he doesn't like her back. Sad right?
It's okay when a girl is rejected, but realises that he wasn't the one..It's better having one, real tight relationship, than several flings. -quote by Tze, and i agree with it. Of course to wait long and have a good relationship, is better than rushing in and having a bad relationship. But really, is it worth the wait? To have waited so long, just to find that one guy that will love you for who you really are..you may have to wait years.

Girls have their own little list of what they want in a guy, their ideal guy. Guys are the same, they have their own little list of what they want in a girl, their ideal girl.
When a girl finds a guy that fills almost everything she wants, and the more she gets to know him, the more she likes him..but then she finds out what his ideal girl is, and realises..that he is everything she wants, but she is everything he doesn't want.
However, if a girl really likes a guy, she might change for him..some say it's worth it to change yourself for someone you really like, but some say it's really not.
Clothing style, scent, accessories, products and personality. Those are things that you can change about yourself, you can dress differently, use different perfume, wear different jewelry, use different products and change how you act, it's hard, but if you're strong enough to make it through, it could be a really good change.
But age, height, voice, natural appearance and background. Those are the things you can't change, you can try to look older, or younger..but you'll never be able to change your age. You can wear high heels and make yourself taller, but how about when you're bare foot? There's nothing you can do to change your height. Natural appearance, make-up can be used to change your look, but you can't wear it all day, there's a time you'll have to take it off, and your real self is revealed. Background, you can hide it, but you will never be able to change it, no way at all, you can't change who your parents are, where you were born, your nationality, your ethnicity.
So why bother? If you're something he doesn't want, then give up. Move on, find someone who will really love you for who you are, inside and outside, all throughout.

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